Listening with your eyes
Description
If we meet a foreigner, as Dutch people we tend to automatically speak the other person's language. Subconsciously, we do this with the aim that the other person understands us better and so we communicate more effectively. As a trading nation, we have internalised this trait for many hundreds of years.
However when a rational person meets an intuitive person, it is not at all obvious that one of the two automatically speaks the "emotional" language of the other. The only thing they notice is that communication is not so smooth. Why that is, they are usually not aware of. So it would be helpful if one of the two could see what emotional drives the other. Is this rational, emotional or intuitive? In this example we simplify the model: everyone is a mix of the three emotions; however, there is one that is usually dominant.
Nice story you will say but how can I see which of these emotions is the driving sense of someone? This is where non-verbal communication can help you. The face tells us a lot about this, but so does the way you walk. Language is also different.
PURPOSE
Course participants learn to see by means of non-verbal communication what someone's emotional drive is. With this different way of looking at things, they learn to take this into account, adjust their behaviour slightly and appreciate what the person is saying. We do this with photos, videos, DVD and an interactive PC training
THE TRAINER
In 1985, Geert Hommes graduated from HTS Enschede, faculty of Computer Technology. Immediately after graduation, he started working in the sales organisation of Hewlett-Packard Netherlands. Obtained an MBA from NIMBAS Bradford in 1991. After many years at HP, joined Randstad Holding. Working area was secondment of university-level professionals. From 1997 to 2001 major projects in Germany and France and eventually co-founder of YACHT UK.
After 2001, Geert worked as interim manager in various types of companies, from radar systems to colleges. In 2006, he took the step of turning his knowledge of and interest in non-verbal communication into his own company: TOM Institute. The focus of TOM Institute is learning to understand and apply non-verbal communication for professionals.
From 1998, Geert has followed intensive studies in the field of non-verbal communication. Among other things, he followed a three-year course with Prof Dr B.A. Goodfield in the US during that period. Goodfield is one of the great pioneers in this field. In the years 1999 - 2002, he was Goodfield's right-hand man on European business trips.
SET UP AND PROGRAM
Practical day with lots of new knowledge, cases , videos and interactive PC training.
09.00 Reception
09.30 Introduction, who's who, form groups of 2 for the day
10:00 Theory, and development of non-verbal behaviour/communication
11.15 Break
12.15 Interactive PC training in the groups on laptops
12.45 Lunch
13.30 What types there are and what do you recognise them by, once recognised what does it mean for communication
14.15 Self-test, what type am I myself ????
15.00 Break
15.30 Case, recognising type of some people on the TOM DVD, in the groups on laptops.
17.00 Closing
PARTICULARS
Participants will receive the book "applied non-verbal communication" afterwards.
Participants are requested to bring a laptop with MS-Windows.
The number of participants is minimum 10 and maximum 16, in case of great interest a second day will be planned.
Speaker(s)
Geert Hommes is currently active at home and abroad, at Clingendael, College of Europe(Bruges), DIVITEL, Police Criminal Investigation Department, VNO-NCW, KIVI-NIRIA and business associations, among others. Each workshop was specially adapted to the target group. In 2010, 250 Polish diplomats and top officials trained in preparation for the Polish presidency of the EU in July 2011
Target group
This workshop is tailor-made for people who interact a lot with other people, and who want to communicate more effectively in their professional practice by becoming more attuned to the other. For themselves, the team, the company and society
Location
KIVI NIRIA building, Prinsessegracht 23
2514 AP The Hague
Organiser
Commercial Engineer
TOM Institute The Hague
Name and contact details for information
Further information from the KIVI NIRIA Congress Bureau, 070-3919890 or via the e-mail address below.
